HOW CAN I FALL IN LOVE
To fall in love is to add passion or emotions to your intimate relationship. You can’t marry someone whom you don’t have intimate feeling or passion for. The probability of falling in love with your partner after marriage is very low and does not guarantee a successful marriage because the other partner has to do a lot to keep the marriage alive.
HOW TO KNOW YOU ARE IN LOVE
1. Your partner is the first person you think about each day.
2. You prioritize his/her needs above yours.
3. You are never afraid to express your feelings in public.
4. You love his/her imperfections (Character, appearance, voice, walking, etc.).
5. You think about the future with him/her, not immediate benefits you will derive from him/her.
6. You become a better person because of him/her.
7. You check your phone more often not to miss his/her call.
8. You love to spend more time with him/her.
9. Your appetite for food shrinks and you tend to think more about him/her.
10. You are less attracted to other ladies/gentlemen.
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WHEN & HOW TO REALIZE YOU ARE IN LOVE
When?
Realizing that you are in love can be immediate or developed. This means that you can fall in love with someone within a short period or at once fall in love with someone. Falling in love immediately, happens especially when you have compatible emotional chemistry. Love can also be developed within some period. Meaning that; you may not fall in love immediately with the person but as time pass by, depending on how you carry yourself in the relationship, love could be developed.
How can love be developed?
Developing love can be done by getting close to the person, effectively communicating in a passionate way, loving and caring for the person and receiving same back. Not necessarily involving yourself in sexual acts; that’s lust and could be detrimental to the relationship.
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HOW TO KEEP LOVE STABLE
1. Work it out. Learn and invent interesting activities each day to your relationship.
2. Change your lifestyle. You need to change a habit that makes your partner uncomfortable and diminishes you love.
3. Understand that men and women are different in thinking, understanding and talking.
4. Anger is a waste of time and destroys relationships at a high speed, avoid and control it.
5. Give what you want to get; love is reciprocal.
6. Honour each other, turn up regularly and communicate effectively.
7. Both of you should always stand on one side in every issue.
By: Counsellor Benjamin Effah Werehene
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