So I will pen my answer for the men, (ladies if you would like your version of this answer, please let me know).
- Tell her she is beautiful. Often.
- Remember her birthday and get her a gift. It does not have to be expensive, but the fact that it came from you will be enough.
- Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
- If you say you are going to call her, make sure you do. Even if you can only talk for a minute, chances are she will be happy to hear your voice.
- Listen to what she has to say. I mean, really listen. Show her that you value her thoughts and opinion.
- If you care for her, then tell her. Don’t be afraid to do so.
- Be on time. Be a man of your word and be on time. Traffic is not an excuse for being late. Plan in advance.
- Do not go and hang out with your ex when she is not with you. You may not realize just how much this hurts her.
- Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you are alone.
- If she is mad at you, kiss/hug her.
- Walk her home or to safety. Be a gentleman and walk her to her car or home because you are concerned for her safety.
- If she says she ‘loves you more’. Deny it and fight back.
- Never criticize a home-made meal. Never. Smile and chew.
- Open the door for her. Whether it is getting into the car or going into a building. This is a gesture of affection.
- Compliment her. She spent a lot of time getting ready, be a gentleman and show her that you have noticed.
