However, some people are wired in such a way that they can only lust after another when they don’t respect them. I have found some agreement about this among both men and women, and I have found others who deny that lust has anything to do with a healthy relationship. You be the judge.
Allow me to propose this idea to contemplate a while. When a man respects a woman, he can’t love her with a full feeling of lust. That is a strong statement for me to make. It certainly does not apply to all men. However, from my observation, it does explain the mental attitude of some men.
In my opinion, those who function that way are wired in such a way that they can only love a woman who they don’t respect. Can this be a healthy relationship? How do they interpret love? Are they confusing love with lust? I think so. A man will find it difficult to respect a woman who he lusts after.
This can apply to women’s feelings towards men too, but I’ll focus on this from a man’s point of view for the sake of this discussion. Women readers who can relate to this discussion are welcome to share your comments. Thinking this way, a man will never have the enjoyment of lust in a healthy loving relationship. Is it really correct to say that a man can only feel lust for a woman when he has a lack of respect for her?
The Confusion of Mixing Lust with Respect.
