An anonymous man has shared a deeply personal and emotional story on Facebook under the pseudonym Ngozi Sandra Chukwuekee. In the post, he recounts his regret over rejecting a pregnancy 28 years ago from his then-girlfriend, an act that led to their separation and loss of contact. Decades later, the man finds himself grappling with the consequences of his past decision after discovering that the child he denied is now a wealthy real estate mogul.
The man’s revelation began earlier this year when he encountered his ex-girlfriend and their son at a newly opened shopping mall. To his astonishment, he learned that the mall was owned by his son, whose striking resemblance left no doubt about their connection. Overwhelmed by this revelation, the man resolved to reach out and take responsibility for his actions, albeit belatedly.
“I got his number from the mall manager and called him,” the man wrote. “I told him I was his father and explained everything that happened between his mom and me. But he bluntly denied me and ended the call.”
Determined not to give up, the man sought support from elders in his village. Together, they traveled to his son’s opulent residence in Lagos, hoping to establish a relationship. However, their visit was met with rejection. According to the post, the son instructed his gateman not to let them in and personally confronted them at the gate, reiterating that he was not interested in any form of reconciliation.
“I even suggested we do a DNA test at my expense,” the man shared. “But he said he wasn’t interested and blocked me everywhere. I don’t know what to do anymore.”
The post has since sparked widespread discussion on social media, with many offering varied perspectives. Some sympathize with the man’s plight, urging him to continue pursuing a DNA test as proof of paternity. Others, however, argue that the son has every right to reject the father, citing the emotional trauma of abandonment and the father’s decades-long absence.
This story highlights the profound impact of past decisions and raises questions about forgiveness, responsibility, and the complexities of rebuilding estranged relationships. While the man seeks advice on how to “reclaim” his son, the situation underscores the delicate balance between seeking redemption and respecting the boundaries of those who feel wronged.
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I am a 49 -year old man, I rej3cted a pren@ncy 28 years ago from my girl friend back then. We l0st contact same year. Fast forward to 2024 , the product of the r3j3cted pr3gnancy is now a a real estate mogul with several estates in several cities across the nation.
Earlier in the year I ran into my ex and our wealthy son at a new big shopping mall, ( I was later told that my son owns the shopping mall). This my son looks so much like me, the resemblance is just too obvious, no difference at all.
From that day I made up my mind to accept him as my son and begin to play the role of a father in his life. From the shopping mall I got his number from the manager. I called him and told him am his father and I started explaining how everything happened between me and the mom, he told me to hang it there and bl*untly said that I am not his father. And he ended the call.
One week later I went to my village and told my people everything and they sent three elders to follow me to Lagos to go and claim my son. When we got to my son’s big residential mansion somewhere on the island, my son told his gateman not to let us in, my son walked up to the gate and told us to go away before he calls the police. He said repeatedly he’s not my son.
Then I suggested that we should go for DNA test that I am even ready to bear the cost, he replied that he’s not interested in any DNA test. We left his place after wasting two hours. And since then he stopped picking my calls and bl0cked me everywhere.
Please people of God, what should I do? I need advice on what to do to reclaim my son.
