Mistake #6: Forgetting to Keep Dating Her
A lot of men feel that once they become “officially” boyfriend and girlfriend with a girl, their job is done. They have finally CONQUERED her… and they can now kick back and relax.
But this is actually one of the most common mistakes men make that lead to the demise of their relationship. Attraction isn’t black and white. It can build or it can fade. And when men get complacent with their girlfriends, they head into dangerous territory.
If you get lazy and get into the same “date night” routine of sitting on the couch, eating Cheetos, and watching Netflix… your girlfriend will start thinking of you as boring, predictable, and unexciting. And that’s when she starts losing that “SPARK” of attraction she had for you at the beginning of the relationship.
You SHOULD be inspired to SPICE things up. Do something DIFFERENT. If you don’t feel the motivation to create fun romantic dates that surprise your girlfriend… then you should really reconsider if she’s right for you.
We aren’t all meant to be with each other. Women trigger different levels of chemistry in each of us.
When we meet a girl, sometimes we only want to sleep with her… and so our only intent is a “friends with benefits” relationship. But other times, we meet a girl who triggers overwhelming chemistry within us and she inspires us to not only sleep with her, but share our life with her.
In this case, getting romantic comes naturally. Motivation is plentiful.
